How Are You Today Son,
I just wanted to send you a note today to say hello! I love you and miss you and hope that you are doing very, very well.
Today, something came to mind that someone told me that really resonated with me. I actually heard someone say, “I can hold a grudge forever”. The really interesting thing about this is that the person that said this was actually proud of it. Imagine that, proud of holding a grudge as if it were a sign of and strength and courage.
Like everyone else, I have been flawed in my thinking and have been guilty of holding grudges. I can tell you without hesitation that holding a grudge is a total waste of time, emotion, and energy. A person who is proud of holding a grudge forever is basically saying, “I am proud of holding onto my negative feelings about another person for as long as I live”. Needless to say, this is nothing to aspire to. If you stop and think about it logically, holding onto negative feelings, regardless of how they may have arisen, can’t really lead to a positive life.
Well, that’s all for now!
Have an amazing day and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers!
Love,
Dad
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